July 19, 2016

the beach.


Whenever I pick him up at school with his wagon, he asks to go to "the beach". It's
a spot on the Rivière-des-Mille-Îles, about 10 minutes from our house and his school.

He likes to throw stones into the water and before we leave, he always chooses one to
take home.

After his Summer replacement teacher gave me a quick update on his day, she asked if
he was an only child. I said yes, with a lump in my throat. She told me she thought so
and went on to explain all the ways it was obvious to her.

I've been getting this question more and more lately. The usual Is he your first? has
turned into Do you want more? and Is he an only child? I've been answering these types
of questions for 3 1/2 years now, and it never gets easier. Today's came during the
hardest time of the year for me, so when Leif started pulling on my shirt asking for
the beach, I couldn't wait to go, too.

We threw stones into the river and then I stood back and waited because it was time
to go home.

I watched and imagined his big brother crouched down beside him inspecting the pebbles
on the beach.

It's so easy to imagine.

If he'd lived, Liam would be turning five.

I will forever wonder about him and what life would have been like with him in it.

I wish I could say it gets better or easier, but it doesn't.



July 11, 2016

5 years.


Happy, sad. Full, empty. Lucky, unlucky.
So many emotions.
Long day. Long night. Long month.

July 1, 2016


June 26, 2016

June 21, 2016


On ne voit bien qu'avec le cœur.

-le petit prince

June 18, 2016



June 11, 2016